Life Law 8

 We teach people how to treat us. The responses we give people day to day trains a person how to react to you response. Some would say its the patterns we bring out ask a person. If someone has a problem , you can either blame yourself and get angry or you can retrain how the person treats you. People over time get use to a persons social skills and how they work. Its up to the individual to be able to train themselves to do the right thing.